Tio Rafael's Garden

Yesterday we went to visit Armando's Uncle (Tio) Rafael and Aunt (Tia) Danette who live on 5+ acres in La Center. Rafael loves to garden and uses several acres to plant corn every year. This year he got on a tomatoe kick and planted a few hundred tomatoe plants in addition to his corn and other veggies.

Danette checking on the apples in their 1930's apple treeRows of beanEsperanza perched in an apple tree

We strolled through their land and gardens, picking and eating various berries along the way. Some berries I'd never had before that they had on site were mulberries and salmon berries - yummy! Esperanza enjoyed the mulberries especiallyand ate almost all of what was ripe on their tree. It was a nice and relaxing visit with them and I even came home with bundles of swiss chard, lettuce and zuchini.

The Fourth in the Forest

We camped in the Gifford Pinchot National Forest close to Mt. St. Helens this past Fourth of July weekend. There were roughly 30 of us that went, all close family and friends. It was primative with no bathrooms or running water (other than the Lewis River close by). Our camp site was no where near any other camp sites so we felt like the entire forest was all ours (shared with whatever creature howls at night - an elk maybe). As always, I overpacked for the adventure and felt almost at home with all the stuff we had. We could have done without the play pen and most of the cooking supplies I brought since everyone else brought the same things. I was most thankful for the homemade bug repellent I made and brought with us. It turned into a huge hit with everyone else too - other than Armando, nothing keeps the bugs from his blood. I was also thankful that I brought ~please forgive me Mother Earth~ disposable diapers. Yes, I gave in and bought disposable diapers and disposable wipes for the trip. It was the first time I've ever used disposables with Esperanza and while it was convenient and they actually worked pretty well with no strange rashes or reactions, I went right back to the cloth as soon as we got home (although, I've decided I'll keep the wipes around for the poopy diapers from now on). Ok, back to camping - since we hadn't camped for awhile, I'd forgotten how much I really wanted sleeping bags and some type of sleeping mattress/pad for camping (lying down nursing in the middle of the night on the forest floor is NOT comfortable). I do see those things in my near future for the next camping trip though. We ate a lot of really good food, sat in a circle around the fire and told stories, played games, went to the river, hiked through the forest, and really enjoyed the trip away from the city and fireworks. Esperanza did amazingly well and I'm already looking forward to our next adventure in the woods.

Part of the gang
Gizelle and Brandon playing UnoMe and Little EClarissa & BrandonLisa and LazzyAbout a mile down the hill from our camp site was a really nice spot on the Lewis River. We hiked down several times so we could all swim and get some sun. The water was very cold, colder than the Washougal River at Dougan Falls. Everyone still enjoyed it though and the hike back up the hill always made us wish we were back at the river.
Mando's sister Cathy and her daughter ClarissaMando with EsperanzaMe with naked baby and cold beerThe river was all ourssome of the kids playing on the rocks and in the waterMando, Chilly and Esperanza in the waterA beautiful view with Esperanza and MandoLovely Foxglove were everywhereThe hike back up

Dougan Falls

My all time favorite spot on the Washougal River is Dougan Falls. Usually I head up there with my little sister Mary on hot summer days loaded with a cooler of cold beer to relax in the sun and the freezing water. Since Mary seems to like California better than Washington these days, I've had to find different river companions (I'm trying to make you feel guilty here Mary). So, last week, a couple of new friends of mine (mamas from a parenting group I attend), their babies, Esperanza and I all went up there. We packed lunches, beer and more baby paraphernalia than we really needed and headed up there early. We got there about noon when very few people were there and left about 4-ish, just as it was starting to get busy.

All of our babies seemed to be a bit fussy at times but we all still had a great time. The babies weren't up for going all the way in the water since the water was super icy. Us mamas though took turns in the water and loved every minute of it.

Visit From Cousin Mary Gill

Yesterday, Cousin Mary Gill (not my sister Mary Gill) stopped by for a short and sweet visit. She traveled by car from Ohio to Washington to visit her daughter in Tacoma then is heading south to Arcata where she lived until recently before she heads back home to Ohio. I was so happy when she called to say she was in the area and could swing by to say hi and meet Esperanza.

During her short visit, my cat Lucy attacked her dog, we ate leftover beef soup, we sipped fresh lemon verbena and tarragon iced tea, we snapped some photos in the back yard and Mary had fun playing with and entertaining Esperanza.

First Tooth

This photo was taken a few weeks ago. Esperanza's first tooth started coming in the same week she began crawling and I just realized I hadn't shared it yet. Now, both of her bottom two teeth have broken through and they sure are sharp. Today I gave her a partially eaten apple of my'n and she was using her bottom teeth to scrape pieces of the apple off. She's been teething for many, many months now and we've finally been rewarded and relieved.

And just because I have an obsession with taking picturea, here are a few recent ones...

My sister Cyndi, her son Roman & Esperanza My mom holding Esperanza before we took out her dread extensions and she got her own hair dreaded
My mom with her newly dreaded hair, her pups and EsperanzaEsperanza eating off of the floor Posing and looking cute as can beIt's not all fun and games

Nighty-Night

Last night was night 4 of Esperanza learning how to soothe herself to sleep. If you read the post My Pulsatilla Baby several months back, you'll know we tried this before and it was a disaster for all of us. Esperanza is very strong willed and will fight going to sleep even when she has what she wants. She's never been a thumb sucker, or taken to a binky even after we tried numerous kinds hoping she would. She also hasn't become attached to any specific blanket, toy or doll that would provide her comfort and help calm her to sleep. She has always needed me to nurse her to sleep. I do love nursing her and will continue to for who knows how long, yet I know that I won't be nursing her forever and that she needs to figure out how to fall asleep on her own or else we're going to be in big trouble some day. Plus, I'd kinda like to free up my evenings and have the option for someone other than me to put her to bed at night.

So, I altered the method we used last time a smidgen and gave it a shot. So far it's gone a lot better. I haven't given up. It is still difficult for all of us though. The first night she was very vocal about being uncomfortable with the new routine. The second night was better. She got to a point on night 2 where she was 'talking' to herself for about 20 minutes and it sounded like she was actually having a pretty good time by herself before she finally fell asleep (as you can hear in the video below). The third night was questionable. She wouldn't fall asleep for the longest time! One of the times that I checked on her I noticed the room was stinky. She had decided to give me a poopy diaper (she NEVER poops at night). So that kind of altered the routine and probably confused her about what was going on, but eventually she fell asleep. Last night went pretty smooth and it took less time for her to fall asleep than all the other nights. Wish me luck for all our future nights!

Even though I got the crib all set up in her bedroom and ready for her to sleep in, I ended up putting her in a mini pack-n-play in our bedroom cause I figured the familiar surroundings of the room would make it easier on her since she's never slept in that other room...hey, this is hard on me too and I have to take baby steps. The real challenge is going to be getting her to stay asleep.

Below is a video I took on night 2 of her chatting away, in a repetative sort of way. There is nothing to see but you can hear her. It was so funny, I had to capture it somehow and I wasn't sure how to use just a voice recorder on my camera...so black screen it is.

While Esperanza soothed herself to sleep one of the nights, I took the free time to make more strawberry jam. I was always intimidated with the idea of canning that I never even attempted it until recently. It's so easy though! While I did use a water bath canner (well, last week it was just a stock pot), apparently you don't even need to do the boiling process with jam even though ALL the pectin recipes say you do. My mom (and a really old cook book I have) tell me that it isn't necessary. I'm a little OCD though and decided to do it, just in case. I'm also looking forward to canning a lot more things this year as the season continues and various fruits and veggies become available.

I Wanna Stand Up

The other night before bed, I felt like just sitting back and watching Esperanza for a bit before the bedtime struggle routine began. It was worth it! Since she didn't start crawling until past 10 months old, obviously she's not what you'd call a motivated crawler. She'd rather sit and whine, hoping someone will pick her up or get her whatever it is she wants - usually attention. She does however really want to be able to stand up on her own. There have been a few times in the past couple of days that she's been standing without holding onto something for a couple of seconds before her balance gives way. As my mom mentioned today, she'll probably skip walking and go straight to running.

Here she is playing on the bed and trying to stand up while watching herself in the mirror on the headboard. Of course, the bed isn't the easiest place for her to actually be able to stand up, but it sure makes for some cheap entertainment. The messy hair, oversized t-shirt and super padded wool diaper cover make it extra cute...

~Scroll to the bottom of the page to pause the music before playing so you can hear her~

Look Who's Crawling

Yay for mobility! This past week Esperanza has been teasing us with a little knee movement here or there and then this morning she crawled across the room!

Sorry for the long silent pause part way through the video. I should have been cheering her on but I'm not a fan of my own commentary caught on video. She gets lots of cheers when the video camera is off.

Immediately after I got her crawling on video, I made an appointment to get the carpets cleaned tomorrow (they smell like dog poo). And now I'm going to have to get a vaccum cleaner and mop and actually clean the floors on a regular basis - dang. It's also time to baby proof. If anyone has a used baby gate they no longer are in need of, please let me know. I'd be willing to barter for something or buy for a cheap price.

Bamboo Adventures

You know that park in our neighborhood I mentioned a few posts back? Well, it just so happens that it is a little neater than I originally thought. We found bamboo trails! At the edge of the manicured lawn at the far end of the park is bamboo. Lots of bamboo. At closer inspection, we found an opening in the bamboo which led us into what felt like another world, surrounding us from under our feet to above our heads with bamboo. The ground is covered with layers and layers of bamboo leaves and the bamboo has been arched above our heads leading explorers like us from one bamboo clearing through skinny bamboo trails into other bamboo clearings. There are all kinds of different sizes of alcoves off of the clearings, most of which are shaded and covered completely overhead with the bamboo, but some which are open to sun rays.
Aside from the smell of the sewer and mill, noise from the freeway, energy of the BPA powerlines pulsing through our bodies and all the other ghettolicious benefits of the area, it really was a treat to find this hidden oasis.

May Gardening

It's been a busy month in the garden thanks to this beautiful weather we've had. Some of the early Spring starts are almost ready for harvest - lettuce, radishes, arugula and maybe even broccoli.

I've also put in warmer weather veggies including zucchini, eggplant, tomatoes, basil, sweet and hot peppers. And I've got more kale seeds germinating in the window.

In addition to the goods in my home garden, I'm trading labor for harvest at a friends house who has a large farm in the rural backwoods of Camas. Last week we spent a day up there planting seeds and starts - corn, pole beans, zucchini, several varieties of squash, beets, carrots, lettuce, swiss chard, several varieties of potatoes, tomatoes, and lots more I can't think of at the moment. Below is a picture of the gigantic garden area. Just wait till all the veggies are grown. I did a garden up here with these friends a couple of years ago and we had way more than we needed.

On the farm they have two reindeer (I know, almost as odd as the camel in Hockinson). I'll spare you images of the sheep, goats, chickens, horses, alpaca, llamas, lambs and other ordinary farm animals, but here is one of the reindeer that was friendly enough to come up to the fence for Esperanza and I to say hi to.

The Cutest 10 Month Old

I've decided at 10 months old, Esperanza is at my favorite age. Of course I keep saying that at every age but I can't help it, she just keeps getting more and more entertaining and amazing as the days go by. There is not an age that I miss yet because it just keeps getting better.

Here are a few things she's learned over the past month...

• How to pull herself up to a standing position if there's a sturdy/stable piece of furniture or body part close by.
• Can get into a sitting position from a laying position (easier for her with no diaper on - the only disadvantage to bulky cloth diapering).
• How to garggle breastmilk
• Says Ma-ma and Da - though I'm still not sure if she associates those words or sounds with me and 'Da'
• Scoots and kind of crawls backwards, slowly
• The 'temper tantrum' - she arches her back and stiffens her entire body when she doesn't want to be set down. She doesn't start screaming though until she's actually set down, arched back and all.
• She can wave hi and bye
• She plays peek-a-boo

These are things she loves...

• Kitty's - and oh how we have LOTS of kitty's in the neighborhood in addition to our own
• Oatio-s (Like Cheerios but made with oats)
• Frozen fruit (blueberries, blackberries, peaches, etc)
• Being upside down
• Pulling hair, even the kitty's hair
• Older kids
• Wind chimes
• Mirrors - looking at and talking to herself with smiles and laughs (uh-oh)

And my favorite thing lately are pigtails! Super cute but also super hard to do cause she won't sit still for even a second.