Monday, December 31, 2012

Closing Out 2012

I'm done with 2012! Here are the last of our adventures, stories and pictures from last year I feel compelled to add on to my blog for the year (mostly from Oct-December-ish time).

Esperanza has been practicing writing her name. I work with her almost every day. Every single kid in her class in preschool can write their name, but she can't. And it's her second year of preschool, unlike most the other kids in her class. Poor kid, her name is so long making it very difficult to learn and memorize. I went through the same thing though. She has a really tough time, but she is getting better, and I don't push it. All in good time. I love the backwards and upside down letters. I write her name and she writes each letter underneath. She refuses to do the lower case letters.

Rafa comes over to our house often to spend the day and will sometimes stay the night. He's a trooper when it comes to eating what is served at my house. He will usually tell me he doesn't want to eat whatever it is I'm cooking, but will always clear his plate once it's in front of him. One night, I served corn with the main meal and he kept saying he didn't like corn. I told him he still needed to eat it, so he did. That night, he got up and puked. No fever, not sick, just vomit then back to sleep. When I told his mom the next day, her first question was "did he eat corn?" Uh-oh!

His mom told me this cute little story: She told her kids it was time for dinner one evening. Apparently she rarely if ever use the word 'dinner' at home, they just say they are going to eat. When Eva said this, Rafa replied back to his mom, "Dinner?! That's what they do at Esperanza's house - dinner, dinner and green beans!" I can't stop laughing about it.
Mom and her 17+ year old cat Callie. She isn't doing too well and probably won't be around much longer (Callie that is...).
Awww
The ladies trying to sneak in through the back door into my kitchen where they must know there is food
Esperanza and Lucy
Not sure whats going on here
Ezra feeding the chickens some oats
Grandma Angelina & Esperanza Christmas evening at our house after the big get together
Armando is officially done with school! He 'graduated' with his Master In Business Administration. I'm not sure if he'll actually participate in the graduation ceremony this Spring because it's just too darn expensive! Either way, he's done and passed his classes with a 3.5 GPA. What might he do with that expensive MBA degree we will be making payments on for the rest our lives? Well, he just applied and interviewed for a job that pays just over minimum wage and located on the other side of town. Beggers can't be choosers. Wish him luck! And me! Not sure how I will handle the little rascals all by myself if he gets a real job.
Thanksgiving at moms: Angelica, me, mom, Geneva, Mary (Ezra at the bottom)
Our Lucy
I love this action shot of my princess hula hoopin
I haven't knitted much this year...this might be the only successful knitting project I complete in all of 2012
We had a major dental issue this year this year, despite our healthy teeth cleaning habits. A cavity developed on one of Esperanza's back molars and went all the way into the root. To make a long and stressful story short, I decided to go ahead and conform to the dentists recommendation and get the root canal done. Root canal on a 4 year old?!? Yup...they do that! Trust me, I spent countless hours researching an alternative solution. The other option would have been to pull it, but more serious long term problems could have developed with that option. Now, we are focusing even more than usual on preventing any further cavities. Esperanza, like me, has very weak and thin teeth, with almost clear tooth enamel towards the edges of her teeth making them more susceptible to decay. I feel so bad, and am overwhelmed with how to strengthen her teeth. It's a process we're not giving up on. It's not just about brushing, flossing and avoiding sugary drinks/foods. Oh it's so much more than that...it gives me a headache just thinking about it...
She did so well at the dentist!!!
Before the root canal. The bottom back left molar is now a shiny stainless steel cap. It will be there until she's about 12, when her adult molar comes in to replace it. You can also see how weak her top front teeth are here too, one already having a chip in it. If I could get Ezra to sit still for a similar picture, you'd see that his teeth are completely opposite - he has huge chompers - super thick, bright white and beyond healthy - like his dads.
Group pictures!
I think this was my birthday, Esperanza had me wear her tiara that day. By the looks of Ezra's shirt, I'm guessing he was having some teething issues.
Esperanza is now the only girl in a class room full of boys. For the past couple of months, we've had a really hard time motivating Esperanza to go to school. She doesn't want to go. Once she's there, her teacher tells me she has a good time. But getting her out the door each morning is like pulling teeth out! Not even half way through her second year of preschool and already burnt out. I'm second guessing if I did the right thing by starting her in school so young. 
Ezra coloring - he eats the crayons usually, but will sometimes create a nice piece of artwork. I got him water colors for Christmas, wish me luck!

Maria Elena Mendez-Valencia

My new niece Maria Elena Mendez-Valencia was born a few days ago, on December 29th, 2012 at 9:18 pm. She was 7.8 lbs and 18.5 inches long  - healthy and beautiful! I had sent Cathy a text message earlier that day, asking if she was still pregnant (it was her due date according to a second ultrasound). She said yes, with no indication that baby was coming. When we went to visit her a couple days later, she said she started having contractions around 5 pm the evening after I texted her and then everything went very quickly after that. Her 4th baby!

My sister in law Cathy and my niece Maria the evening she was born (I LOVE that Cathy named her Maria - it used to be a very common, traditional Mexican name in previous generations)
 Can't help but appreciate this photo of Maria - she wants to go back into that warm belly of mamas I bet.

We all went to visit her on December 31st before she left the hospital
 She loves her Auntie!


 Maria picked a great mama!
 Our niece Adriana and Esperanza

While we were there, on the 5th floor of the hospital in Salmon Creek visiting with Cathy and Maria, we noticed snow flakes began to fall outside. They got bigger and began falling faster. Before we knew it, there was a thick blanket of white snow covering the ground.





We had big plans to build a snowman and make snow angels when we got home. Unfortunately, when we got home, there was little to no sign of snow. Somehow, there was just a little pocket of snow fall in that area of town.

Our Christmas - Part 2

We rented the Camas Community Center to use for Armando's family Christmas gathering on Christmas Day. Best part was, it's half a block from our house!
As always, I'm posting WAY too many pictures - out of order, and probably a double post here and there. I just need to be done with it...

Uncle Rafael, Grandma Angelina and Cousin Rafael
 Lots of food
 Our neighbors and friends Tony and Beverly Meza made an appearance
 The teen elves helped the little kids with crafts
 Nieces Celeste and Becky
 Our niece Marti and her husband Amador. 
 Sisters Hannah and Sadee
 Santa's helpers Esmeralda, Selena and Celeste (more nieces)
Double nose picking Ezra
 Waiting for Santa
 Big table where almost everyone can sit down to eat
 overflow table




Rafa and Danette with Santa (this year a friend of Eva's volunteered to be Santa - rather than a family member)



 Jissel & Clarissa

Zeke, Jissell and Clarissa
Group of Valencia/Mendez/Rivera's
Grandma Angelina made her that skirt and she didn't hesitate to put in on over her dress
Mi Familia


 Esmeralda is a goofball (her sister Becky tries to avoid the camera). 


 Isabella

  Really Santa? Who told you it was okay to give candy to children? Not me!








 Rafa and Danette with Santa

 White elephant gift exchange
 Sara and Estevan
 Pregnant Cathy
 Danette and Elda
 $20 for his white elephant gift

These pictures are from Gary...

Cousin Lucy and her little girl Isabella
 My boy
 Silly kids
 Esperanza and Sadie

 Some of the littles
 Ramirez-Fredericks fam 
 Awww

 Cousin Lucy and her family with Santa
 Santa and his teenybopper elves
 Goofballs

 All of us...minus a few people that probably were wondering around

 Gary got a few good shots of these kiddos



 Serillos-Amaya family
 Eva organized the whole shindig!