Thursday, June 17, 2010

Cornstarch + Water = Goo Time

While cleaning out and organizing my kitchen pantry today, I found my cornstarch (along with a few things that were 'growing'). Yay! Cornstarch combined with water is a wonderful and cheap way to entertain kids (and adults) of all ages. I don't even know what cornstarch would be used for in cooking...it should be kept in a different area of the house. The neighbor girl Lily was outside playing with Esperanza so I made them a bowl full of 'goo' and told them to have at it. Lily even at 7 years old had never experienced Cornstarch with water! She loved it...and convinced Esperanza to love it too. Though I have given it to Esperanza on a few different occassions hoping it would entertain her, it didn't. Sometimes it takes a little person to convince another little person that something is pretty cool. And boy was it cool this time around...
Then, Lily went home. There was still a lot of 'quiet' going on outside while I continued to go threw the pantry. Eventually I figured I should take a peek outside at Esperanza...

It was still worth it!

Monday, June 14, 2010

Sleeping Threw The Night

Last night was the first night I've 'slept threw the night' in almost 2 years! I'd like to say the same for Esperanza, but this is how and where I found her in the morning....
I've recently been putting Esperanza down for naps and for the night in her own bed & bedroom. At night I lay down with her until she falls asleep. Then I get up and when I'm ready for bed I go sleep in my room (I know what you're thinking - isn't that normal? Well, not for us. Normal has been her sleeping with me every night since she was born). So, then, when she wakes up in the middle of the night crying (like she has done several times every night for the past two years) I'll go in her room and lay with her/nurse her so she falls back to sleep. By that point, I'm too tired and just end up falling asleep with her in her bed. Last night she didn't wake up crying thow. I woke up in my own bed around dawn (I don't keep a clock, phone, computer, tv, etc in my room so I never know what time it is) and was a little disoriented, not knowing why I was still in my bed and/or why Esperanza wasn't lying next to me. I realized I had actually slept threw the night without being woken up. Then I got worried, got up, went into her room and didn't find her! I tossed all of her bedding and stuffed animals off of her bed thinking she had to be there somewhere (it was still pretty dark and I didn't have my glasses on either). Before I completely panicked, I peeked out into the living room and found her lying on the floor between the couch and the coat closet - sleeping soundly. At some point in the night she woke up (not crying) and made her way into the living room where she found a better spot to sleep. I think I'll put a baby gate up in the hall at night from now on. Before leaving her and crawling back into bed, I snapped a quick photo. I do hope this was the first of many restful nights to come!

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Ta-Da!

The shack (oops, I mean mini-mansion playhouse) is done! Armando and Sef finshed it just a couple days before Mando flew off to Greece. So now I have a job of my own and need to clean it up a bit, paint it, figure out a cover for the sand box part so the neighhborhood cats don't think it's their bathroom, dig a little under the swing area so there is more foot/leg space, furnish/decorate it and I seriously may come up with some kind of a liability form for all the neighborhood kids' parents to sign before they can come play in it. It's ready to play in thow. Esperanza didn't really want to have anything to do with it until it was finished the they guys took all the tools out of it. We went inside and she started dancing, jumping and screaming with excitement! It's her early birthday present (I can't believe she's almost 2!).

This building solid! It is built better and sturdier than most houses these days. It isn't going anywhere, ever! It's not just four walls and a roof - this thing is loaded with all the bells & whistles! Here are the specs - two stories, it's got a covered sand box, a swing, three plexi-glass windows, 1 sliding glass door on the top floor which takes you out to the deck (it is actually a normal size house window), a covered deck with railing on the top level, stairs to get to the deck from outside, a mini-stair case to go from the first floor to the second, a miniature front door that has about a thousand nails in it (Mando went nail happy), a roof peek that is about as high as the roof peek on our house and a future full of fun times to be had by all!

Even though it's a big playhouse, it is miniature. Made for the 'under 4 footer'. Once you reach the age of about 6 or 7 (depending on your genes) you'll feel like a giant in it. Here are a few pictures of Armando and Sef completing it and then some of it all done.

Neighbor girl Lily, Esepranza and me
The giants Sef and Armando with the perfect sized Esperanza on the deck

Monday, May 31, 2010

May Birthdays

This past Memorial Day weekend we celebrated 2 birthdays - my husband Armando turned 34 and our niece Addy turned 12. The family had a combined birthday party for Addy and Armando on Saturday then we invited everyone over to our house on Sunday to celebrate again.
SATURDAY
Adriana - 12 years old
A small portion of the family/friends that gathered
Cousin Lucy literally glowing with her baby girl
Birthday girl & Birthday boy
Exhausted after a long day
SUNDAY
Not sure why Esperanza is giving me the 'crazy eye' but it's still a cute picture
Gizelle & Esperanza
Grandma Angelina & Little Raf Armando w/ BBQ, Chili eating & Justin posing

Zeke & Clarissa

Hannah with Little Raf and Andy

Clarissa and (a little girl I honestly don't know!)
We also welcomed a new baby boy into the family this month. Our niece Maricela gave birth to a healthy baby boy about a week ago. We haven't made it out to visit them yet so I don't have any pictures & don't even know his name. Happy birth day to our new 'great' nephew!

Mini-Mansion

Armando and his friend Sef have started construction on a playhouse for Esperanza! What I envisioned as a little shack with four walls and a roof has turned into what will soon be a mini-mansion complete with two stories, a deck, a sand box and a swing set. Here are a few pictures of the progress so far.
DAY 1
DAY 2

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Naomi & George Update

We've recently been in contact with my sister Naomi. I'm still a little in disbelief. We've all somewhat mourned over her in one way or another over the past several years, not knowing if she was alive or not - and now she's back in our lives. It's hard to know what's next. We'd all love to actually see her, to hug her, to cry with her, to yell at her, for Esperanza & Roman to meet her, to kick the crap out of her for putting us through such grief...but things are complicated. We're all thankful to know she's still with us, and thats all that really matters at this point. She contacted my mom the day after Mothers Day and has been catching up with all of us ever since. My blog post awhile back had nothing to do with her contacting us, it was George. She had a feeling something wasn't right and felt compelled to check in.


George's health has been really, really bad for about a year (well, since Vietnam to be excact). For those of you who don't know, he has liver failer, Hep C, he's on dailysis 3 days a week b/c he has no kidney function, he has diabetes, he's had at least one heart attack and one really bad stroke, he has epilepsy (though the stroke seems to have reversed that), and the list goes on. Over the past month things have gotten even worse. After a bad nose bleed followed by him being given blood he shouldn't have been given at the hospital, he was in and out of ICU for a few weeks. The last time he went in he was put on a ventilator and feeding tube and was sedated. He was out for a week. It was scary. We weren't sure if he was going to pull through it or not. Then last Thursday he woke up. I got to the hospital a few minutes before my mom did. He made eye contact with me and struggled to say something but the tube in his throat prevented that. Through tears, I told him Naomi was okay. His eyes widened and he raised his eyebrows! A response! A miracle (two miracles in one week). They took out the tubes that same day and he's recovering quickly. Things are looking up.

Please keep George and my sister Naomi in your thoughts and prayers.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

A Little Getaway

We took advantage of the nice weather this past weekend and rented a cabin on a lake not far from home, just the three of us. We only stayed one night but it was really nice to get away and enjoy some peace and quiet away from home.


Shorts look pretty good on this girl huh?
Playing in the sand
There's the cabin
Esperanza leading us on a hike
Esperanza's first smore sandwich
Morning campfire and breakfast
Off for a stroll

After we hung out by the water for awhile and checked out of our cabin, we drove a little further north to the annual herb festival on a farm. I was on the hunt for lemon verbena - It makes a wonderful iced tea by itself or with a little bit of fresh tarragon leaves from the home herb garden. Unfortunately, my lemon verbena got mowed down a few months ago on accident and didn't survive. So, hunting I went for that sweet smelling plant to add once again to my herb garden at home. I didn't find it. Sold out! I did get some other herbalicous plants though and will continue to look for the hard to find lemon verbena (if you see some, please let me know where). Esperanza got some honey stix and we enjoyed the rent of the afternoon on the farm.

Esperanza really loves being pulled around in the wagon
She also loved the honey stix
Strolling threw the herb garden
They even have a little fairy garden hidden in the big herb garden - oh so adorable! Esperanza goes crazy every time I try to get my picture taken with her lately. Here she is throwing herself backwards (you'll have to just imagine the screaming part)
This was the best we could do - I think we both have silly faces, but from a distance - not bad

Monday, May 10, 2010

Sunshine At Last

I was finally able to get my tomato starts in the ground this past week and was thankful I did because we had a few warm & beautiful days for them to get settled in. They seem much happier in thier new home. While they danced in the light breeze and warm sun on Saturday, our little family was out and about enjoying a bit of sunshine ourselves.
First, we went to our niece Addy's final soccer game of the season and watched her and her team kick the ball around the field. I honestly don't even know if her team won the game or not - I spent most of my time chasing Esperanza around and keeping an eye on her. I did steal a few glances of the game and even managed to take some blurry pictures.
Here's Addy chasing after the ball

Our niece Marissa with EsperanzaMando's brother Chili with Esperanza Look at that big field! She ran her heart out.Esperanza made friends with these two dogs - she loved the puppy so much, they gave each other tons of kisses

After the game, we headed downtown to the Farmers Market where Val and her family met us. It was a little bit insane there, everyone else had the same idea we did. I'm no fan of big crowds, so we strolled threw once, grabbed some food and hung out under a tree in the park for awhile. Then we took the kids to the other side of the park to cool off in the water fountains.

Armando pulled Esperanza around in her wagonEsperanza ran, danced and jumped around the park

Wearing mama's sunglassesI couldn't convince Esperanza to play in the waterBut somehow we convinced her to look at the cameraSorry Annabelle, didn't mean to cut you off Me and my little Espy
Val and Jamo's beautiful kids Annabelle and Carter
Though it had already been a long day by the time we left the market, we were headed to a party. Armando's older sister Aurelia is getting married this summer and she had a little pre-wedding party so her family and her husband to be family could meet and mingle. Esperanza took a short cat nap in the car and when she woke, she wasn't very happy. We toughed it out though and still had a great time eating some yummy food and meeting some really nice people.

Aurelia and Gary - the happy couple!Esperanza's cousin Rafael always takes the cutest pictures. It's like pulling teeth to get this kid to smile. But really - who needs a smile when you look like this? Espy and Raf playing together